Should we learn to say ”NO” ?

Hello spectacular readers. Hope you all are praying to God to settle down every thing 🙏 like before. I am praying too.

Well, we are going to discuss a very bold topic today. That is, Should we learn to say”NO” ?

Before keeping my point of view.. Let me ask you to imagine something. Just imagine.. What could have been happened, if one world class athletic was not able to say ”NO” to his parents for doing engineering. Also, if a doctor was not able to say ”NO” to his friends for partying.

Ofcourse, we need abundance of courage to do so.

Saying ”NO” is a skill that needs to be practiced a lot.

Saying No is difficult for those persons who keep others before themselves.

Let me remind you. We came in this world alone, we are going to leave this world alone. Ofcourse there are many people who are accompanying us in this beautiful journey of life.

Let them know that you really admire them, love them and care for them. But-big-but, your first priority should be you. Yes I am asking you 😊 to be selfish. There is nothing wrong to be a selfish person unless you are not harming anyone physically.

Let me remind you one more thing. GOD HELP THOSE WHO HELP THEMSELVES.

So, YES in my opinion it is totally spectacular to follow your ❤️ heart and say NO to your opponent.

Lots of good wishes to all my readers and friends…..


  1. utahan15 · April 11, 2020

    say no so they know it is truly thus

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  2. parikhit dutta · April 11, 2020

    Saying ‘no’ requires a lot of courage but there are times when we need to place our interests before that of others if by saying yes would lead to unhappiness 🙂

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  3. Anya Abraham · April 11, 2020

    This is beautifully written. Often times we can’t stress on the fact that we need to say no when it’s supposed to be said or else we’re in a soup!

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  4. Louis · April 11, 2020

    Merci Ipsa pour tous ces bons conseils !
    Savoir dire “Oui”, savoir dire “Non”, permettent de pratiquer la transparence de sa personnalité.
    En ces temps délicats et inédits, protège-toi et prends bien soin de toi. Bonne fête de Pâques et affectueuses pensées d’Auvergne (France)


    • ipsa2 · April 11, 2020

      I am sorry. I am unable to understand this language. Please translate it in English if you don’t mind.

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  5. Louis · April 11, 2020

    Clin d’œil de mon village :


  6. Louis · April 11, 2020

    Thank you Ipsa for all this good advice!
    Knowing how to say “Yes”, knowing how to say “No”, allow you to practice the transparency of your personality.
    In these delicate and new times, protect yourself and take good care of yourself. Happy Easter and loving thoughts from Auvergne (France)


    • ipsa2 · April 12, 2020

      Aww Thankyou so much 🙂 I am glad that you like my blog. Happy Easter to you too.

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  7. Ankur Mithal · April 17, 2020

    Whether to say No, or to say Yes, make an informed choice and take responsibility for it is what I will add.


  8. Mark Lanesbury · April 17, 2020

    It does take great courage to say no dear lady. And to love ourselves, even more 😀 ❤️ 🙏🏽 🦋


  9. craig lock · April 26, 2020

    Reblogged this on Say Yes to YOUR Potential.

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