I was reading a blog today. I didn’t feel good after reading that. It was something about family. Then, I went through the comments. Honestly I was shocked after reading those points. Then, I have decided to write some strong points on this topic,i.e., Relations.
Our first relation starts with our mother. Can you even imagine the pain that she did bear when you were in her womb. How can you say that you don’t feel like sitting next to her. She is the one who takes care of you and who do prays for you. And if you are saying that she didn’t have choice then I am sorry to say that you are wrong in this statement. Try an understand she always had choice. You even can’t pay the debt of her love even if you work for your whole life.
Next comes to Father and other family members. It is not compulsory to have good understanding in relations but it is important to avoid the misunderstandings.
If you can’t find a nice person in your family then be one.
A negative mind finds faults in every thing.
Yes, How can I forget Husband-wife relation. You know what, this relationship is magical. This relation need a strong base of the word CHANGE.
Change yourself according to your partner. If the other person doesn’t want to change, that’s good you got this opportunity to do something for your partner. Remember the day when you both were getting married. Now look at this beautiful relationship. Change yourself according to your partner. But never expect your partner to be changed. You can’t change other person.
If you love someone and expect something in return then you are doing business and not love.
First learn to give love.
Some of the people are so egoistic that they can’t give up on their points infront of the family. Can I ask you why? Which medal are you going to get to win this debate with your partner or your parents?
Family is the most wonderful blessing that you can ever have. Ask those who don’t have family.
Some of them are not feeling good sitting at home because of their family because they think that they can’t understand their family.
You know what they are the only one who will stand by your side when ever you ll be in trouble. God forbid.
Why can’t any one do compromise?
Try it once. Then do it daily till the time it will not become your habit. It is important to show your love.
Remember, we only cut straight trees and we enjoy fruits of bend trees for years.
Avoid arguments completely. Compliment other person in a good way. Think yourself as a child when you are in front of them. Remind them again and again that how much you adore them.
Problem starts when we think that we are the smartest person in this room. Let go. Let the other person win. It is your family. Either they win or you win it is the same. They are the part of your most important thing that is family.
Learn to be bent one. You can make your life incredible. It is you who can change the environment of your home. To change a family from saddest to happiest we need only and only one person.
I am extremely sorry if I have written some loud lines.
Life is a gap between birth and death. Love your family. Be the reason of every one’s smile in your family.
Lots of love and blessings to you and your spectacular family. And remember, there is no such family as perfect family. It is we who make it.