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I was reading a blog today. I didn’t feel good after reading that. It was something about family. Then, I went through the comments. Honestly I was shocked after reading those points. Then, I have decided to write some strong points on this topic,i.e., Relations.

Our first relation starts with our mother. Can you even imagine the pain that she did bear when you were in her womb. How can you say that you don’t feel like sitting next to her. She is the one who takes care of you and who do prays for you. And if you are saying that she didn’t have choice then I am sorry to say that you are wrong in this statement. Try an understand she always had choice. You even can’t pay the debt of her love even if you work for your whole life.

Next comes to Father and other family members. It is not compulsory to have good understanding in relations but it is important to avoid the misunderstandings.

If you can’t find a nice person in your family then be one.

A negative mind finds faults in every thing.

Yes, How can I forget Husband-wife relation. You know what, this relationship is magical. This relation need a strong base of the word CHANGE.

Change yourself according to your partner. If the other person doesn’t want to change, that’s good you got this opportunity to do something for your partner. Remember the day when you both were getting married. Now look at this beautiful relationship. Change yourself according to your partner. But never expect your partner to be changed. You can’t change other person.

If you love someone and expect something in return then you are doing business and not love.

First learn to give love.

Some of the people are so egoistic that they can’t give up on their points infront of the family. Can I ask you why? Which medal are you going to get to win this debate with your partner or your parents?

Family is the most wonderful blessing that you can ever have. Ask those who don’t have family.

Some of them are not feeling good sitting at home because of their family because they think that they can’t understand their family.

You know what they are the only one who will stand by your side when ever you ll be in trouble. God forbid.

Why can’t any one do compromise?

Try it once. Then do it daily till the time it will not become your habit. It is important to show your love.

Remember, we only cut straight trees and we enjoy fruits of bend trees for years.

Avoid arguments completely. Compliment other person in a good way. Think yourself as a child when you are in front of them. Remind them again and again that how much you adore them.

Problem starts when we think that we are the smartest person in this room. Let go. Let the other person win. It is your family. Either they win or you win it is the same. They are the part of your most important thing that is family.

Learn to be bent one. You can make your life incredible. It is you who can change the environment of your home. To change a family from saddest to happiest we need only and only one person.

I am extremely sorry if I have written some loud lines.

Life is a gap between birth and death. Love your family. Be the reason of every one’s smile in your family.

Lots of love and blessings to you and your spectacular family. And remember, there is no such family as perfect family. It is we who make it.

22 comments

  1. ipsa2 · April 12, 2020

    I am sorry but I disagree. There are times when we need to change for the sake of our loved ones. This is my point of view. I respect your point of you as well. Thankyou πŸ™‚.

    Liked by 3 people

    • ipsa2 · April 12, 2020

      I am married. I have changed myself alot for him, you can say downside up. After watching me he is doing it too. I am 26 years old. I have changed for my In-laws. They are proud of me. Now I have become the most important part of this family. No decision can be taken without my consideration. Simply because I respect them, they are doing the same.
      Everyone face different experiences. Thankyou again to wishing me luck.

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  2. beforethegladness · April 12, 2020

    What a heartfelt approach – very positive. Sometimes we have to be the change we want to see. ‘When you smile, the world smiles with you’. Thank you for your thought provoking post.

    Liked by 2 people

  3. 𝑹𝒐𝑩𝑰𝑡 πŸŒ‹ · April 12, 2020

    “Why can’t any one do compromise?”
    I agree, compromise is a critical quality! I have met few who will.
    “Remember, we only cut straight trees and we enjoy fruits of bend trees for years.”
    I like this line! πŸ˜„

    Liked by 3 people

    • ipsa2 · April 13, 2020

      Agree. Only this one quality can make our life wonderful.
      Thankyou πŸ™‹

      Liked by 1 person

  4. Harbans · April 13, 2020

    Nice sharing. :))

    Liked by 3 people

  5. Newbee · April 15, 2020

    Beautiful

    Liked by 2 people

    • ipsa2 · April 15, 2020

      Thank you for your review πŸ™‚ Stay safe and sound.

      Liked by 1 person

      • Newbee · April 15, 2020

        Pleasure being around you

        Like

      • ipsa2 · April 15, 2020

        Likewise πŸ™‚

        Like

      • Newbee · April 15, 2020

        Wow

        Liked by 1 person

  6. Shivaansh Sharma · April 15, 2020

    Very niceπŸ‘

    Liked by 3 people

  7. melissabluefineart · April 15, 2020

    I appreciate your positive approach to life~so refreshing!

    Liked by 3 people

    • ipsa2 · April 15, 2020

      Thank you for your kind words .😊 Stay connected.

      Like

  8. AnuRijo · April 29, 2020

    Yes..I agree πŸ‘πŸ»πŸ˜Š.good post . Keep up the good the work..

    Liked by 1 person

  9. usfman · May 24, 2020

    The matter of family guilt must be addressed as part of your always love of family outlook.

    Like

  10. 🎢 S M I L E 🎢 · August 7, 2020

    Life is full of changes. Certain time its necessary to change or adopt for good. It depends on individual choices as well. Good post. Wish you smiles. Keep safe.

    Liked by 1 person

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